am i enough????

           Do you get the feeling that most of the things in your life is not happening the way you wanted it to or that you simply lost the power to make it happen so and feeling low about it ? I guess it happens with most of us sometime or the other in life, there is a small voice in our head asking “Am I any good at all?” The instances this could happen can be different at different times for different people. Sometimes it could be due to plain routine that cuts through us and our limitations to break it, other times it could be because of being continually faced by rejections or failures while our peers seem to flaunt their success by celebrating it every other day!

            And when the devil of this question haunts us it is one of the most sickening things that could happen!!! It seems like there is no valid reason to be alive at all, all the doors of hope shuts down for the haunted one.

Every now and then we come across motivational forwarded messages, they tell us, “every time you fall down, pick something up… and this is the secret to a beautiful life.” Well this is a nice quote, maybe true. But the problem is that the event of falling down the ladders of life drains us of all our energies to pick up anything that might restore our hope. For quite some time it may appear like a diabolic deadlock!

And what is the strategy to unlock it?

The sweetest way to get back with zeal to your life, is to meet up with people who could tell you that “you mean the world to them” or the ones who can remind you how you had bounced back the last time things went wrong and made up for everything that was considered lost (but be careful not to meet who are not having a happy time themselves, the problem is that they might boost your temporary conviction that life sucks most of the time!). Believe me, a dose of love (or a dozen of it) is the best medicine for any kind of heartbreakJ

Even if this does not work, there is a PLAN B as wellJ

ACTION is one antidote to feeling both helpless and hopeless. Do more of what you think works for you or what you should be doing.  Your thoughts will, on its own, get aligned to the positive hemisphere of life.

It is a way of life, like the tides of the sea, to rise up and fall down and then rise againJ Remember always that the brightest dawn comes after the darkest night and so most of the times it becomes important to fall down to rise up like never before! You will find this true in the story of most of the legends, to quote a few, JKR became one of the most celebrated writers when she was facing gruelling poverty, Steve Jobs founded Pixar , the most successful animation studio,after he was opted out of APPLE. When you lurk in the darkness it is important to believe that you are just a little away from finding the most unexpected glittering victory of your life!

Love life and you will find it loving you back multi-fold times!!!